Comments on: lone conclusion http://cj69collins.com/2008/07/06/lone-conclusion/ world traveler :: lost everywhere Mon, 04 Jan 2010 02:46:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Brian http://cj69collins.com/2008/07/06/lone-conclusion/comment-page-1/#comment-114 Brian Mon, 07 Jul 2008 01:10:41 +0000 http://cj69collins.com/?p=119#comment-114 I often find myself in the same position as you lately. While I'm becoming more comfortable spending time on my own, there are more and more times that I wish I was more engaged with my friends. Most of my evenings and weekends pass by without the phone ringing, or the only people contacting me on instant messenger are friends in other states often going through the same thing. I used to enjoy going out on my own whether to meet new friends or just have fun on my own, but not staying in shape has made me a lot more self-conscious about doing so. But I'm trying. My job has been stressing me out so much that I really need to find an escape. Hopefully we'll both find a solution that works for us. I often find myself in the same position as you lately. While I’m becoming more comfortable spending time on my own, there are more and more times that I wish I was more engaged with my friends. Most of my evenings and weekends pass by without the phone ringing, or the only people contacting me on instant messenger are friends in other states often going through the same thing.

I used to enjoy going out on my own whether to meet new friends or just have fun on my own, but not staying in shape has made me a lot more self-conscious about doing so. But I’m trying. My job has been stressing me out so much that I really need to find an escape.

Hopefully we’ll both find a solution that works for us.

]]> By: Dan http://cj69collins.com/2008/07/06/lone-conclusion/comment-page-1/#comment-113 Dan Sun, 06 Jul 2008 20:24:37 +0000 http://cj69collins.com/?p=119#comment-113 Chris, wish I was near enough to you to help you out. Telling you to get out there and meet people doesn't really help. For me, it's fairly easy, but I just have to sit down next to someone at a bar and I'll be talking to them in short order. Maybe you could arrange to meet people you know online in real life. That tends to lead to expanding social circles. Chris, wish I was near enough to you to help you out. Telling you to get out there and meet people doesn’t really help. For me, it’s fairly easy, but I just have to sit down next to someone at a bar and I’ll be talking to them in short order. Maybe you could arrange to meet people you know online in real life. That tends to lead to expanding social circles.

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